When people hear about happiness, immediately they pop in their mind “ party, money, drink, etc” or some entertainment things. However, they do not know the exactly or feeling of happiness, ever though they are having fun and enjoying what they are doing in their time. Eventually, it is only a period of time. Through the whole universe, nation to nation, city to city, village to village, people ask themselves how come that I do not feel happy with all of what I did. According to ( Pewreserch.org ) the research shows that 50% of American people feeling very happy and the reason of that is being around their family. Moreover, from my experience I notice that being around my family make me feel the happiest guy ever for several reason such as secure, sociable, and union between families.
First of all, setting around my family and between them, it is mean the world for me, specially when staying beside mom shoulders. Moreover, for a person such as me expatriate, I do not think I will be more safe or secure only around them, my family. Even though, if I could not be with them physically, I’ll try to be there for them spiritually or emotionally at least. Overall, I’ll be happy just for doing that.
Next, being sociable around the people because of that, around your family. In Saudi Arabia, we have a famous quote or phrase that saying “ If you were not good enough for your family, you will not be a good well yourself” and through my life I realize that is true. It influence your behavior and attitude. In another word, treat your family as good as you can. In the end, it will reflect in your life and you will notice that sooner rather than. Trust someone had the experience before. For example, me, Naif.
Finally, lack of people whom are connected or they communicate with their family, whether they are father or mother and sibling or their relatives. However, some of the families keep the simple traditional thing between them from generation for staying stack with each other. In order to keep the union between them and stay together. For some people prefer to get married from their family, so as to keep the same family blood with each other and keep their family name around the world for years and years. Nowadays, these traditional though on belied has been reduced years after years become people stopped to worries meet with their family and relations.
In conclusion, if you are trying to find the happiness, you should stay and try to communicate and keep with some of the traditional believers for family unions. In order to get the secure, sociable, unions between families.
